Episodes

Tessa Spence was 13-years-old when her parents announced their divorce. Although initially very difficult for her and taking years to speak to her father again, she now looks back and sees the many opportunities her parent's divorce gave her to intentionally build a life that she loves. Because of her personal experience and the understanding that so many teens out there are struggling to navigate their own difficult family transition, Tessa is on a mission to change the experience by helping AL...

Of all the major financial decisions you’ll need to make in a divorce, few will involve larger amounts of money than the decision of what to do with the house. Few will also have a greater impact on the next chapter of your life. Some couples simply choose to sell, split the proceeds evenly and go their separate ways. Others choose to defer the sale of the home until a later date, especially if kids are involved. But for many divorcing couples, one spouse is inclined to keep the family home and ...

The foundation for getting unstuck is first figuring out WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT? This can be a really hard question to answer. Most of us have years of someone else’s beliefs or expectations programmed into us, so it’s hard to peel those away and find out what you truly want. OR, maybe you know what that is but you have that voice in your head stopping you from doing it - keeping you in the comfort zone. At Launch Success Lab, Jillian dives right into this in the very beginning, as she asks her...

Like so many good things, this one started with conversations among a few new friends. Over small dinners and happy hours during the summer of 2020, six 40-somethings in Tulsa realized one striking common denominator: their midlife, post-divorce status. Messy, raw, friendly, acrimonious, you name it – their experiences with divorce and their ex were varied, but all of them sang from the same sheet of music: divorce midlife is not for the faint of heart. Themes began to emerge such as the importa...

Mediation is a form of alternate dispute resolution that uses the services of a neutral (mediator) to help parties reach resolution in conflict. Mediation is fast, cost-effective way for couples who are divorcing to resolve the various issues related to their divorce. Additionally, it allows for parties to have control over the outcome rather than allowing someone else tell them how their matter will end. Mediation serves as a much gentler alternative to litigation which is especially important ...

Shannon Sagawe is the founder of The Wealth Alchemist, a lifestyle investment brand and the host/creator of the Shot Caller Podcast, launched in 2019. The Wealth Alchemists’ definition of wealth is having access, freedom and resources to pursue your dreams, invest in your health, spend time with loved ones and enjoy the beauty of this amazing planet. Financial and investment literacy play a key role in achieving this vision and to knowing your WORTH.

Dr. Elizabeth uses the term Relational Programming to describe the impact of our upbringing on present day behaviours in relationships. In tis episode, we will talk about the impact of our upbringing on our attachment styles and how we respond to conflict and communication with others in our lives, most notably our partners and spouses. The way we have been programmed can also impact our marriages and can lead to the end of relationships. Having insight into ourselves by understanding our up-bri...

Renee and I are going to talk candidly about what it's like to be a Divorce Attorney, how it impacts her own marriage and family and what are the most important things you should know when hiring a family lawyer / attorney for your own situation. Renee is also an expert in establishing the right mindset when going through Divorce and we are going to dig into some tough questions: If you’re the one who wants the divorce, how do you deal with the guilt of breaking up the family – how do you reconc...

In this episode, Kelly and I will talk the importance of understanding your financial world not only in the event of divorce, but as an empowered woman. She and I will talk openly and candidly about her personal experience with divorce, what the biggest lessons she gained, what she would do differently and what lead her to work in the field she does. Kelly will also give us an inside peak of her newly released book: Untying the Knot: Protecting Your Emotional & Financial Health During Divorce.

One of my driving missions and what inspired me to start my professional practice, Divorce ReDefined, is to increase the knowledge and understanding of both marriage and separation. When I found myself navigating the divorce process in my early 40s, I was embarrassed, shocked and terrified to discover how little I truly knew about the legal implications of marriage and what the divorce process actually entailed. Let’s focus on the #1 leading misconception: If you work with a Divorce Coach it mea...