Episodes

Bi-Polar and Borderline Personality Disorder have so much in common. They both create chaos in everyone's life they touch, especially when untreated. Both often look for a co-dependent partner to project all their complex madness on. Coping instead of living is their way of life. Riding on total exhilaration in one moment and drastic depression the next. Partners always confused if they are crazy or is it who they are with. One disorder is genetic and the other from on-going child neglect or abu...

Facial similarities, body shape, feelings, attitudes, scents, communication styles, energy, sexual presence, flaws and all kinds of complicated features shape what attracts one person to another. We will simplify and focus on what can turn ugly into hot and sexy. Loneliness lies beneath people's deepest fears and most disturbing thoughts. If we don't feel attractive, we don't feel we belong. We feel like an obligation and someone who is used for their goodness, rather than a desired person. We w...

Raising children on it's own is the most difficult job in the world, but having a difficult child can push any parent to utter insanity. Difficult children come in all flavors of attitudes, narcissism, dangerous behavior, destructive behavior and complete stupidity. I will go into how to work with all types of children and explore potential mental issues and how to cope with them too. Tune in and learn to make your life more peaceful!!!

Cross Cultural Relationships can be highly complex. Forming a relationship with someone of a different culture can be highly enchanting. Then one discovers a vast amount of differences in our expectations, areas of compromise, views of finances, religion, family blending, family responsibilities, communication, gender differences and traditions. These fragile relationships sometimes take more than a therapist to fix. They also require an anthropologist. We will explore cultures around the world ...

Pornography has fueled the sex drives of the human race for 10,000 years or more. Some cultures have prided themselves on it's role in their everyday lives. However, pornography can be a secret addiction and can destroy a monogamous relationship in so many countless ways. We will examine the brain's response, the biological outcomes and how it impacts our everyday lives. Pornography has it benefits and its downfalls. The dehumanization of human sexuality is the biggest. Listen in and explore thi...

The transition to adulthood for many children can be challenging for them and their entire family. What we once thought was an adult at 18 years old is now developmentally 32. Some go to college and never make a life, some never leave and others move on and make it. There are true developmental factors that define an adult. By clarifying what an adult is, maybe some will understand how to transition.

Less than 10 percent of all people in long term relationships claim they have found their most suitable partner.

Self-Sabotage is something all of us do at some point in our lives. Some people do it purposely and others as a subconscious way of life. Self-Sabotage has everything to do with how you feel about yourself. It is a way of rejecting yourself before others reject you. It is a self fulfilling prophecy. So many responsible adults destroy their homes, families, jobs, integrity and lives through destroying all that is good. This episode is about damage control, recovery and change. Tune in and learn!

Abuse and Addiction effect more 18 percent of the people on our planet, not to mention the people impacted by their lives.

From Humanism to Dialectic reasoning, philosophy is the holding grounds of many perspectives and universal truths that align with our very nature and existence. Wisdom of the ages is often used in psychology along with many other ingredients which form the basis of theory used to treat the entire spectrum of mental disorders. We all have philosophies on life which make up our values and character. Those philosophies are found in the most consistent parts of our characters and habits. Listen and ...

Co-Dependency is a struggle for the entire human population. Like dogs, co-dependents happily look past the habitual tragic life's of people they love and support who are alcoholics, drug addicts, abusers and so on. Co-dependency comes in many flavors. Denial is their main coping skill. Their role in supporting self-destructive people is tragic in itself. The very act of looking past the devastation caused by destructive people in their lives elongates the damage caused to all who enter their li...

Adoption of children can be a very complex issue for both the adopted children and their new parents. We will do a deep dive into how the process works, the emotional impact and how families bond and adjust. Each adoption is unique and comes with many complex human issues. I will lay out many of the common issues ad offer solutions for all. Listen and learn!!!

Adrenaline junkies are everywhere. They are never satisfied with the simple risk of driving a mile an hour over the speed limit. Their life is one death defying traffic ticket after another. From jumping off cliffs to diving into shark infested water, adrenaline rules and when it is released is the only time they feel truly alive. We will explore how adrenaline works, effects relationships, sex and much more. Listen and learn!!!

Impulsiveness can destroy a person's life in a heart beat. Anywhere from committing a crime, gambling your home away to quitting your job without plans for an income. People self destruct on a continuous basis. As you are reading this, there are multitudes of people acting on immature thoughts. ADHD is a greatly misunderstood genetic disorder. Once the most valued people in the world were ADHD (hunters). Now they are left in the ashes of technology and forced to live as gatherers (despite that t...

Phobias are experienced by nearly 4 million Americans. Highly treatable, though many choose to suffer with them their entire lives. From Social Phobia to Arachnophobia, I will do a deep dive into the insane fear, the biology of the brain and break out some of the most pervasive phobias to the most detrimental. For some, phobias rule their lives.This handicap of choice is one that can be ended. To live with them and live with someone who has them is a life of Hell on Earth. Listen in and learn!!!...

Sports Psychology is a fairly young field, but is growing like a wildfire. The reason is that it is effective in helping athletes and teams be mentally prepared for all of the issues and barriers they must overcome to become a champion. For an athlete to perform at their very best, they have to learn to tame their biggest obstacle first, their own brain. Tune in as we unveil the difference sports psychology makes. Also, how to avoid dealing with or becoming a psychotic sports parent,. Tune in an...

So many people journey through life without direction, passion, desire or concern for purpose. Sadly, mediocre is all some strive for. The evolution of our brain's potential is not realized with these people who are the vast majority people of the world. Get a Life is a show about finding your souls journey and listening to your inner voice. Discovering who you are at any age is better than never. Tune in and learn how to discover yourself!!!

Fear of attachment and loneliness are some of the deepest struggles many people have. Often times the things that cause attachment issues are subconscious programs that we learn very early. To overcome a fear of attachment requires the courage and desire to change. Exposing oneself to being hurt again and again. That is life. Pain is a reminder we are still alive. Listen and learn how to overcome the destruction of attachment issues!

Molestation and Rape take place in the childhood of more than 65 percent of the population of the world. Amazingly, many of these people pull their lives back together in all kinds of ways and find a way through it on their own and never tell a soul.

Our Body Image can effect everything from our self-esteem, sexual prowess, social interactions, health, limitations on what to do with our children and even how well we perform at work. The acceptance our the body or life was giving is a challenge for everyone. Some spend their life worshipping their body to the detriment of their mind. Others spend their life doing the opposite. Most of us just meander in the middle trying to make the best of what we got. However, that mind-body connection has ...

Insecurity operates some peoples lives and in parts of the rest. It is utterly a life lived in fear. People who suffer from chronic anxiety, depression, panic attacks and phobias are plagued with insecurities like a cancer. This show is about revealing insecurities, what they do, how they operate and how to cure them or even cope with them. It is sad to see how vulnerable and scared people live in this world. Taking a leap of faith is how life is best lived. It is literally the only way to live ...

The Inner Child refers to periods of our life where we felt fear and things were out of control. These periods stick with us through the coping skills we learned to get through them as children. Throughout or adulthood these coping skills can be continuously triggered and become a part of how we act and who we are. Usually, these coping skills are immature and fear based. This show is an exploration of the damage our Inner Child can do without our awareness. Learn how to Parent that little monst...

Moving on is one of the most difficult emotional life choices we are forced to make. It takes incredible fortitude to move on, let go and continue our journey. Some people can never do it. They simply look back and compare everything to what their life was. We will talk about tragedy, divorce, loss of children, loss of job and countless other heart-wrenching situations that life offers us. I will provide new coping skills, philosophies and outlooks that will hopefully give every listener the ski...

Throughout the cultivation of mankind over millions of years there are primal instincts, genes and learned behavior which remains in our functioning life today. From the choice of who we marry, how we raise our kids to how we relate to the world. There are much more predictable common links between all of us that research and anthropology has acknowledged and proven. Charles Darwin intended for his theory of evolution not only to provide a map of our ancestry but also an understanding of human t...