Episodes

Throughout the history of mankind, we are one of the few species who actually preys on our own. The weak, young, old, vulnerable, naive and ignorant are systematically targeted by predators for either personal gain or pleasure. Predators can be charming, attractive,successful, intelligent and many times can be a friend or family member. They often groom or stalk their prey creating confusion and deep mental scars -sometimes death- for their victims. We will go into great depth around this dark w...

Imagine a world without prejudice. Someday it will be, to some degree, as we move towards one global economy. We will explore the roots of prejudice and what it accomplishes. We will take a deep dive into how it manifests and why people fall back on it to shape their views, In a world that is grey, people love to simplify and judge black and white. Please join me. Listen and learn!

Abuse in relationships are passed down in families generation after generation. Sadly, many times it goes unacknowledged or the victims are blamed. Once abuse enters a family's history, rarely does it leave. Abuse comes in all forms. The majority is verbal, physical and emotional. This episode will explore each and give you the tools to know what to do and to heal. First, you must recognize what abuse is. Listen and learn to improve your life!

Gender Identity is a lifetime struggle when you were born one gender but completely feel like you are the other. Millions of people around the world identify with this issue. Amazingly science has found a way to help these people who can afford it. We will explore the confusion and pain for a person, their family, partners and friends to adapt to Gender Identity problems. Tune in and learn!!

To be married to or be a hypochondriac or a neurotic person can literally suck the life out of you. To not have insurance with a hypochondriac can cost millions over a lifetime in medical expenses with no answers. Googling every odd sensation a person can have at any given moment, has more than tripled the hypochondriac population across the globe. Healthcare is the most secure occupation due to this. Being a hypochondriac or neurotic is no joke. One could be having a perfectly normal day destro...

Conflict avoidance is one of the key identifiers that a person has not transcended into adult life. Relationships, employment, raising children and anything calling for compromise requires conflict. All that is required is to have the willingness to be an active listener to another person's perception. Whether you agree or disagree is irrelevant. You have to be willing to hear. Tune in and learn how to identify someone who avoids conflict -maybe you- and work through the issue into a peaceful li...

Unemployment looms over anyone who works for someone else. The almighty dollar is king and people are the means to more, if it is thought you are not a quick goodbye is coming. No company or business is completely loyal to their employees. The values that once push the United States to the top is gone. We must be rugged individuals faced with the prognosis that on the average the majority of adults will go through at least 4 career jobs before retirement -if that is in the cards-. Tune in and le...

Bi-Polar and Borderline Personality Disorder have so much in common. They both create chaos in everyone's life they touch, especially when untreated. Both often look for a co-dependent partner to project all their complex madness on. Coping instead of living is their way of life. Riding on total exhilaration in one moment and drastic depression the next. Partners always confused if they are crazy or is it who they are with. One disorder is genetic and the other from on-going child neglect or abu...

Facial similarities, body shape, feelings, attitudes, scents, communication styles, energy, sexual presence, flaws and all kinds of complicated features shape what attracts one person to another. We will simplify and focus on what can turn ugly into hot and sexy. Loneliness lies beneath people's deepest fears and most disturbing thoughts. If we don't feel attractive, we don't feel we belong. We feel like an obligation and someone who is used for their goodness, rather than a desired person. We w...

Raising children on it's own is the most difficult job in the world, but having a difficult child can push any parent to utter insanity. Difficult children come in all flavors of attitudes, narcissism, dangerous behavior, destructive behavior and complete stupidity. I will go into how to work with all types of children and explore potential mental issues and how to cope with them too. Tune in and learn to make your life more peaceful!!!

Cross Cultural Relationships can be highly complex. Forming a relationship with someone of a different culture can be highly enchanting. Then one discovers a vast amount of differences in our expectations, areas of compromise, views of finances, religion, family blending, family responsibilities, communication, gender differences and traditions. These fragile relationships sometimes take more than a therapist to fix. They also require an anthropologist. We will explore cultures around the world ...

Pornography has fueled the sex drives of the human race for 10,000 years or more. Some cultures have prided themselves on it's role in their everyday lives. However, pornography can be a secret addiction and can destroy a monogamous relationship in so many countless ways. We will examine the brain's response, the biological outcomes and how it impacts our everyday lives. Pornography has it benefits and its downfalls. The dehumanization of human sexuality is the biggest. Listen in and explore thi...

The transition to adulthood for many children can be challenging for them and their entire family. What we once thought was an adult at 18 years old is now developmentally 32. Some go to college and never make a life, some never leave and others move on and make it. There are true developmental factors that define an adult. By clarifying what an adult is, maybe some will understand how to transition.

Less than 10 percent of all people in long term relationships claim they have found their most suitable partner.

Self-Sabotage is something all of us do at some point in our lives. Some people do it purposely and others as a subconscious way of life. Self-Sabotage has everything to do with how you feel about yourself. It is a way of rejecting yourself before others reject you. It is a self fulfilling prophecy. So many responsible adults destroy their homes, families, jobs, integrity and lives through destroying all that is good. This episode is about damage control, recovery and change. Tune in and learn!

Abuse and Addiction effect more 18 percent of the people on our planet, not to mention the people impacted by their lives.

From Humanism to Dialectic reasoning, philosophy is the holding grounds of many perspectives and universal truths that align with our very nature and existence. Wisdom of the ages is often used in psychology along with many other ingredients which form the basis of theory used to treat the entire spectrum of mental disorders. We all have philosophies on life which make up our values and character. Those philosophies are found in the most consistent parts of our characters and habits. Listen and ...

Co-Dependency is a struggle for the entire human population. Like dogs, co-dependents happily look past the habitual tragic life's of people they love and support who are alcoholics, drug addicts, abusers and so on. Co-dependency comes in many flavors. Denial is their main coping skill. Their role in supporting self-destructive people is tragic in itself. The very act of looking past the devastation caused by destructive people in their lives elongates the damage caused to all who enter their li...

Adoption of children can be a very complex issue for both the adopted children and their new parents. We will do a deep dive into how the process works, the emotional impact and how families bond and adjust. Each adoption is unique and comes with many complex human issues. I will lay out many of the common issues ad offer solutions for all. Listen and learn!!!

Adrenaline junkies are everywhere. They are never satisfied with the simple risk of driving a mile an hour over the speed limit. Their life is one death defying traffic ticket after another. From jumping off cliffs to diving into shark infested water, adrenaline rules and when it is released is the only time they feel truly alive. We will explore how adrenaline works, effects relationships, sex and much more. Listen and learn!!!

Impulsiveness can destroy a person's life in a heart beat. Anywhere from committing a crime, gambling your home away to quitting your job without plans for an income. People self destruct on a continuous basis. As you are reading this, there are multitudes of people acting on immature thoughts. ADHD is a greatly misunderstood genetic disorder. Once the most valued people in the world were ADHD (hunters). Now they are left in the ashes of technology and forced to live as gatherers (despite that t...

Phobias are experienced by nearly 4 million Americans. Highly treatable, though many choose to suffer with them their entire lives. From Social Phobia to Arachnophobia, I will do a deep dive into the insane fear, the biology of the brain and break out some of the most pervasive phobias to the most detrimental. For some, phobias rule their lives.This handicap of choice is one that can be ended. To live with them and live with someone who has them is a life of Hell on Earth. Listen in and learn!!!...

Sports Psychology is a fairly young field, but is growing like a wildfire. The reason is that it is effective in helping athletes and teams be mentally prepared for all of the issues and barriers they must overcome to become a champion. For an athlete to perform at their very best, they have to learn to tame their biggest obstacle first, their own brain. Tune in as we unveil the difference sports psychology makes. Also, how to avoid dealing with or becoming a psychotic sports parent,. Tune in an...

So many people journey through life without direction, passion, desire or concern for purpose. Sadly, mediocre is all some strive for. The evolution of our brain's potential is not realized with these people who are the vast majority people of the world. Get a Life is a show about finding your souls journey and listening to your inner voice. Discovering who you are at any age is better than never. Tune in and learn how to discover yourself!!!