Episodes

Anger is just an emotion. Emotional Intelligence is required to manage it. Some people have ZERO to a toddlers Emotional Intelligence. It must be managed before it grows into rage. Rage is the reason we need Anger Management. It is the most destructive and psychotic emotion we have. Rage is where a human being is no longer human, just an uncaged animal lashing out of fear and the deepest insecurity. In raged, we are a brain stem with a body. Nothing more. Sadly, many people spend their life in t...

If you think getting caught masturbating as a kid is embarrassing, try witnessing someone trapped in their Mid-Life Crisis. Suddenly, without anyone seeing it coming, people burst out of their traditional lives and turn into beasts of passion ripping the fabric of their lives into shreds. It happens like clockwork all corners of the world every day of our lives. We will explore this predictable phenomenon and open up the triggers, intentions and desires that drive people into this madness. We wi...

Abusive relationships have been a worldwide epidemic since the dawn of man. In the day and age we are in, people have created all new ingenious ways to be shittier than before. Women and men are nearly equal on the abusive scale. Unfortunately, we as people are often too stupid to recognize it (look at the state of our education system and lack of role models). When idiots get angry (especially under the influence), baaaad things can happen. We will examine how to indentify an abuser and an abus...

This episode is an absolutely crazy and candid journey into the ludicrous world of dating. We will span the ages looking at how people meet, first dates, middle age dating, internet dating, dating websites, social media and the deep dark world of deception. I will pull no punches and call out how the super creeps operate. Give you quick ways to access if you are dating a dog turd. Dating can be a very scary and difficult process for anyone. There are ways to do it and enjoy it safely. There are ...

Over 63% of our US population admit to having or had secret lives. Those secret lives run anywhere from fulfilling kinky sex cravings, having affairs, wearing dirty women's panties under suits at work, drugs and alcohol and more than your current imagination can envision. I remember as a child passing a farmers barn and hearing very stressed out sheep behind the door. However, I can absolutely assure you that while this show is playing in some corner the world someone will be actually doing what...

Children with mental issues will push any parent to absolute hysteria. Raising a normal child is hard enough. I will cover as broad a spectrum of childhood disorders and give you insight, indicators and tools to help all parents. Understanding how these children operate and their intentions is key. You can spend your life on the internet trying to figure it out or we can get down finding the answers right here. No one raising a child challenged with a mental disorder can do it thinking a child i...

Suicide, Death and Grieving are issues nearly every individual will come in contact in their life. I am taking a sharp and direct approach to challenging the thinking behind these issues and how to work through them. The weight of these issues can either take over your life or you can move through them. The choice is yours. The legacy of people's lives are so much more important than how they die. Do you want to ONLY be remembered for how you die? Is that why you wake up and do what you do for o...

Wellness has everything to do with how we conduct our lives, are mindful of our health and manage stress. Dr. Nancy Bohl-Penrod is my special guest discussing incredible techniques and insight into how we can heal and improve. We will take a deep dive into stress, nutrition, spirituality, relationships, exercise and medication. Wellness impacts our coping and ability to work. Instead of living as a stressed out and irritable person, listen and learn. This episode takes on mental and physical hea...

Walking among us are millions of functional people with jobs, families and relatively normal lives, but leave a shadow of destruction and chaos everywhere they go. Personality Disorders are people who are driven by odd and eccentric behavior; dramatic and erratic behavior; and/or anxious and fearful behavior. Their lives consume and destroy the peace in everyone they encounter. When you first meet them, the impression is usually...I don't like this person and don't know why. Their soul's journey...

Critical Incident Stress is trauma that is so overpowering it is beyond our ability to cope. We have nothing that has prepared us to face its aftermath. Critical incidents can be come from conflict, abuse, war, natural disasters, man made disasters, death, witnessing trauma, near death, threats, extreme fear and the list goes on. The aftermath is Post Traumatic Stress Disorder if not treated immediately. Dr. Nancy Bohl-Penrod and I will explore the complex world of treating during, after and bey...

With the Divorce rate rising well above 64%, the prospect of having to go through a world of trauma is likely. Also, the prospect of having to deal with a new partner's untrained thankless hoodlums is likely in the cards. Many people attend counseling over the conflict of step-parenting and having to deal with being married repeatedly. Of course, the kids are the real victims. No one can save them from change or being caught in the middle. Though complex, I come from a life of experience and und...

Children with mental issues will push any parent to absolute hysteria. Raising a normal child is hard enough. I will cover as broad a spectrum of childhood disorders and give you insight, indicators and tools to help all parents. Understanding how these children operate and their intentions is key. You can spend your life on the internet trying to figure it out or we can get down finding the answers right here. No one raising a child challenged with a mental disorder can do it thinking a child i...

Committed relationships and SEX can be the only thing people enjoy together, is the same every time OR completely non-existent. Lets face it, as we get older we don't get any prettier. The honeymoon phase dies and what is left is stress, lonely people, flabby adult bodies, bad breath, too sweaty, financial and work issues, kids, health issues, power struggles and no sex drive what-so-ever. Lets not forget NO TIME or TOO TIRED for Sex. This show is about how to turn it all around. Cut the crap an...

The days of retirement, benefits and a job you will work your whole life are gone. Employer loyalty is a thing of the past. No employer wants to pay retirement and benefits until someone dies. Our economy is global and moving at the speed of light. Dr. Wayne McAfee will take on the hard questions of how a business and employee can survive and thrive. From the Executive on down through all employees of a business, Dr. McAfee and I will explore the dynamics and motivations of any employer. We spen...

We are not taught how to be parents. If you want to stop the legacy of disaster that has been passed on and give your child a chance to thrive, then take a listen. Beware, you may decide to change your parenting and have a relationship with your child when you are destitute and decrepit. I will come from many angles. Including, child development, parenting styles, discipline, values, structure and communication. Get a babysitter or late night glass of wine, sit back and take notes. We are going ...

A lively and adventurous discussion with Pastor Chuck Booher of Crossroads Christian Church and author of Great and Mighty Things about the parallels psychology and faith share in helping people become whole. Crossroads is one of the fastest growing churches in the world. It is considered a mega-church. No one area of life has all of the answers. Our life is a journey. Some comes from faith in ourselves, faith in God, and faith in each other. To have peace, one must fight to maintain it. It call...

In this episode we will explore the depths of depression. The heights of (Bi-Polar) mania and the complete and utter psychosis of anxiety. Depression and anxiety are some of the most successfully treatable mental issues. All people experience and anxiety in this world. The problem is how intrusive is it and how long has it been there. I will give you a truly human perspective on depression, bi-polar and anxiety from the screwed up thinking to the chemical imbalance in the brain. Take your Prozac...

From the mania of the honeymoon phase to the depths of loneliness and despair, I will teach you how to be married in today's world. I will provide concrete common-sense tools that will lift the cloud over your lives and move you into the next phase of peace. I will teach how men and women think and what their needs are (not wants). Take notes, listen and learn. Fixing a marriage takes people who are committed to change and will take action. I don't have time for the Waiting for you to change and...

This is the first episode of thirteen. In this episode I will define my goal of changing the course of psychology to match the insane lives we live. I will speak to and demonstrate many of the concepts, philosophies and psycho-education that I use to work with the average person, couple or family on life issues that are real and meaningful. I practice what I teach. I will give you what my clients seek. Though this show is not therapy, I am direct, attempt to be witty and give you something you c...